Here we go again

I’m currently sitting in my room in the Holiday Inn RiverCentre dreading tomorrow. For those of you wondering why I got a hotel room, it’s because I have a hard time sneaking hookers into my parents’ house. Seriously, it’s because it’s a 20-mile drive to the testing site, I’d have to cross the Minnesota River and there’s no guarantees when it comes to traffic and/or parking around here. Registration starts at 7:30, lasts for an hour and directions begin at 8:40. They ain’t gonna delay the start of the bar exam for nobody (unless someone falls out of a plane and crashes through the ceiling of the building, but that hasn’t happened for, like, eight or nine years, so it’s not something I can count on).

Conversely, it’s much easier to rent a room that’s two blocks away and leave my car parked in the lot here. It’s more expensive, of course, but the convenience is worth it as far as I’m concerned. Plus I have high-speed Internet access here, so I can babble on for lengths and not have to wait quite as long for it to get posted on the blog. (It might only save 10 seconds, but it’s less time, dammit!)

The only down side is that I’m bored out of my mind. Being here in the hotel room means I’m stuck watching TV, reading a book, babbling on for lengths or (God forbid) going over some notes at the last minute. At least I’m not overtired at the moment, so I’m sounding mostly coherent. For the time being.

Thankfully, I haven’t been completely isolated from human life for the past five hours or so. I ran over to Subway when I first got here—it was pouring, but I brought my rain jacket for a reason. I figured, “Buy a foot-long sub, eat half for lunch on Tuesday and the other for lunch on Wednesday.” I walked up to the door and saw that it closed at 5:00pm. Why? Hell if I know. Maybe it’s because they only have enough workers to fill one shift per day, so it’s open for eight hours max. Regardless, I got there, flipped open my phone to check the time: 4:55. Whew.

I bought my sub, went back to the room and waited for a phone call. I made dinner plans with a friend—there’s a bar called The Liffey attached to the hotel, so we were meeting over there as soon as she got off work and drove over. She’d called me while I was driving into town to say she’d be getting out later than she expected. No worries, I thought. Then while I was sitting in my hotel room, it started raining harder. A lot harder. She called shortly thereafter to tell me that while traffic was moving, the speedometer on her car was on zero. Her final phone call was while she was back on the road, asking if I wanted to postpone until after the bar exam was over. I said I could have dinner on my own… she decided to come anyway.

Technically, I guess that wasn’t her final call—the last one was to let me know she was waiting for me in the lobby. We went over to The Liffey, where I ate a BLT that was pretty good, though the fries left something to be desired. Katie had a mixed greens salad that was significantly larger than she expected. Plus it gave her onion breath. Ah well… at least we had fun together. In my hotel room! And we could have slept together, too!

Wipe that smirk off your faces—nothing happened. We were talking in the bar, which was getting louder the longer we stayed, so I suggested we head upstairs where we could hear each other. We got in the room, I sat down in the chair by the desk and she plopped down on the bed. After lying there for a moment, she said she could have fallen asleep right there. (Had she done so, I could have laid down next to her and taken a nap; we would have slept together.)

We talked for an hour or so, at which point she had to take off and study for a class she’s taking (Biopsychology). After she left, I was sooooo glad she stopped by to distract me from the nasty stuff that’s looming in my immediate future. Now that she’s gone… this is all I’ve got to distract me and I’m pretty much done writing. I’ve received lots of good luck and best wishes via phone and e-mail during the course of the day, so I’ll try to put it to use tomorrow.

Pre-Creation Creation

First, there was nothing. Then, there was this guy. He didn’t have a name. He decided a name would be good. He called Himself God. And if anyone mentions that He hadn’t created language yet, He will smite them by dropping a piano on their blaspheming heads. Since God was the only thing around, He decided to create something. Unlike the second version of the Creation, the first thing God created was Time. After all, what’s the point of making day and night, seasons or the Super Bowl if you’re trapped in the span of a micro-second? So God made Time and then created the first wristwatch so He wouldn’t miss “ER” on TV after work. Continue reading “Pre-Creation Creation”

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“Walking Advice Column”

While it’s not a gathering in Colorado, there’s been an ongoing discussion that deserves its own post, one that could (unfortunately) reach the 100 comment point and beyond:

“Lived through a rocky relationship? Need to seek comfort/spew venom/give that person the finger? Here’s the place to do it.”

Aftermath of the Aftermath

The original post that popped up the day of “Beauty and the Geek: The Aftermath” filled up with comments rather quickly. This one may fill up just as quickly, but at least it’ll contain some commentary from yours truly. If you have questions, this is the place to ask them.

As an added bonus, I’ll be adding the answers to the main text with the answers so you don’t have to keep scrolling down all the way down the list to find them in the comments section. Why? Because I’m lazy, too.
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We don’t know why Eric wasn’t there. They told Cheryl to say he was hiking in the mountains in Europe, which may or may not have been true—your guess is as good as mine.
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Regarding “changes in my social life,” here’s what happened. I was talking with a group of people at a Mensa gathering and explained how much I hated getting phone numbers of random women (something I said during the reunion show that was subsequently edited out—can’t imagine why…). One girl had parked her car a couple blocks away and when everyone decided to leave, I walked her to her car. Since I’d been parked a few blocks from the bar in the opposite direction, she offered to drive me to my car.

I got in and we headed over there. I had just a few moments before we parted ways and there were tons of butterflies flapping around and bouncing off the walls of my stomach, but I managed to say, “Is this where I ask you for your phone number?” (Hey, I was nervous as hell—it felt nothing like the challenge because I was planning on using that number if she gave it to me.)

“Are you serious?”

I’m not sure whether I looked her in the eye at that point, but I said “Why not?”

As I said at the reunion show, she did give me her number, it was her real number and we did get together a couple times. (She came to see me play soccer one Sunday morning and I think we grabbed lunch later that week.)

After saying that much at the reunion show, I wanted to get a rise out of the crowd, so I said, “We decided to be friends, but you never know what might happen…” They all went OOOOO-oooo, but since the editors cut out that last sentence, I’m really glad I told the girl what I said before the show aired.
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There was a portion of the show when I didn’t like Richard very much. When asked about his “rivalry” with Chuck, he just waffled. When asked to compliment Chuck, he just waffled for a couple minutes before coming up with “You remind me of Al Gore.” To me, that meant one of two things: he wasn’t willing to compliment Chuck, which makes him an ass, or he felt the need to stall until he could come up with the funniest possible answer, which also makes him an ass.

Still, I’m glad that he went on his first date. And those fifteen pounds that being on TV adds were really there when I picked him up off the floor.

—> I’ll bet you a nickel that he would have gotten bigger laughs by saying, “According to Shawn, you’ve got really soft lips.”
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I had one tooth whitened between the show and the reunion. I cracked my upper right front tooth back in high school, so the root is dead—you can lighten the enamel, but the inside will be forever dark. (Poetic, no?) Back in February, the dentist gave me a mold of my upper teeth and some bleach; by using it on that single tooth, my entire smile looks brighter. Sweeeet…
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For the dance challenge, we were given a CD with 1-minute segments of R&B, disco and salsa. Scarlet taught me the basics of salsa dancing (1-2-3, 1-2-3, 1-2-3…), but the rest was kinda freestyle. As such, I felt rather stupid up on stage in front of all those people and once broke down laughing (I was thinking about how much my little brother was going to enjoy watching that on TV).
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The editors cut out some good stuff and some not-so-good stuff:

I wish they’d left in the part when Scarlet was apologizing profusely about losing her temper after the outdoor challenge so people would understand that it was just a blip of her behavior and not a full-blown character trait.

Conversely, I’m glad they left out this audience question: “Did the Boy Scouts revoke your membership after your meltdown?” It wasn’t “in good fun”; it was blatantly offensive. (I had no trouble answering it—“Part of me still thinks they should have, but it’s all good now”—but it was probably best for the network to chop that part out of the final cut.)
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Mindi is an incredibly sweet girl. While she basically nursed Richard through the course of the show, she was always caring and supportive of everyone else in the mansion. (I’ll be adding a post one of these days about our dinner together which should give you some additional insight into the kind of person she was.)

As for Mindi’s middle name, I was shocked when Richard didn’t come up with the answer right away (I’m going to remember “bass” for the rest of my life…). Still, that’s what it seemed like—he was waffling again, much like when he was talking about his “rivalry” with Chuck. If you were Mindi and you didn’t think he remembered, wouldn’t you want to make a joke about it (flash back to when she told Richard she’d make out with him if they won the money)? When she made that suggestion, he jumped right up and said [drum roll, please] “Nicole.”

In Ashton Kutcher terms, she’d been punk’d. Again, if you were Mindi and got played like that, wouldn’t you be screaming, “Richard, I hate you!”? Honestly, I was impressed that she followed through with her offer and even more impressed because she gave him more action than Lauren when she came over and tackled Richard to provide him with some sweet, sweet lovin’.

I’ve heard the rumor about Mindi and Brian floating around on the Internet. I’m pretty skeptical for two reasons:

1) She’s currently living in Missouri and I fairly certain Brian’s still in L.A.
2) She’s got pretty good taste in a lot of stuff and I’d like to think that includes whoever she might be dating nowadays.

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